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{Handmade Business in 31 Days — Day 5, How to handle copycats.}

October 5, 2012 · 50 Comments
Filed Under: 31 days, blog & handmade advice

Day 5// Ohhh, this is hurts a little to talk about. It’s never fun to handle copycats. It’s never fun to be called a copycat. Over the years I’ve had to do both: decide how to follow up with a so-called copycat + defend myself when called one. And nearly from the beginning I have found this to be true: It’s never appropriate to point a “I’m disappointed in you” finger at others.

The online world is a sensitive one. Situations blow up quicker than we can blink. Feelings get hurt. Brands get destroyed. In most cases, my experience with copycats is to let it go. There are rare occasions when a more serious action is required, but in most cases it’s best to take a deep breath and let some time pass before letting it fade away. Why? Because you’ll {often} never know for sure if it was a try case of The Copycat. I will absolutely admit I’ve called others a copycat. It felt powerful at first but later on I felt terrible. And I’ve seen others call their neighbor a copycat and you know what? Both are pure ugly. It never ends well and it’s never a situation I want to be associated with. Apologize if you’ve wrongly done this and wipe the slate clean.

I’ve also experienced situations where a fellow crafter/friend and I released product with the exact same fabrics AT THE EXACT SAME TIME and had truly no clue the other was going to do so. Yes, that is a true story. See how easy it is for a wrongful accusation to occur? The handmade industry is heavily populated with super talented designers, creators + marketers, and it’s so easy for an overlap to occur. Please — trust my guidance here when I say it’s most often best to just let it go.

Of course if someone is scraping your blog word-for-word, or is literally reproducing your logo or custom design, or is creating an online account with your name — consider saying something {but proceed delicately}. But know that it’s super easy to become overly upset when really there’s nothing to be upset about in the first case.

ACTION STEPS FOR BOTH SIDES OF THE COPYCAT SITUATION:

  • Take a deep breath.
  • Take the afternoon off + enjoy a creative day.
  • DO NOT (!!!) share your frustrations via social media or email.
  • Screenshots + hurtful words can’t be deleted.

Homework// Search for materials, color palettes, textures, product designs + word usages that are unique to you by taking your initial idea and re-creating it differently. Take your idea to the next level. Customize it. Sit on it for a day or five. Re-create it once more. Allow your idea to become marbleized through this process. When you feel comfortable with your idea put on your shield of bravery + move forward. Don’t let others words bring you down. And allow what you experience to continue to mold you into your best self.

Is this something you’ve had to deal with? How do you deal with copycats, and what were the results? {Please do not share names or give examples via links.}

 

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  1. Jenna says

    October 5, 2012 at 4:29 am

    Yep. these days it seems like there are so many people doing the same thing, and I’ve realized it’s important to focus on your own products and truly making them your own. It’s hard when your from a small town and you post something on your social media site and a day later another local crafter posts pretty much the same thing…saying ‘it’s been in the works for a long time.’ Annpying, but you’re right, in the end it was better that I kept my mouth shut!

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:44 am

      @Jenna, I totally understand. I think it speaks so loudly when you build a brand with unique ideas –and others learn + trust that from you. There will be times when ideas overlap between people, but being known for your uniqueness will back you up. Thanks for the comment! xoxo

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  2. Stacey says

    October 5, 2012 at 5:22 am

    Good for you for rising above! I have to admit that I have seen a “copycat” of a Gussy bag somewhat locally, and it made my blood boil! I’m am fiercely loyal, lol. Anyway, I tried not to let it bother me, and I just left it. No reason to buy it when I can get the real thing :)

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:45 am

      @Stacey, It doesn’t take away the hurt of frustration, but it’s so important to not accuse…

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  3. Dedra@SolomonsSecrets says

    October 5, 2012 at 5:37 am

    I’ve never had to deal with a copy cat but I do at times wonder how original my work is. A lot of the things that I make are a result of looking around for something and not being able to to find just what I want. Hair accessories are not a new idea. Earrings are not a new idea. Bracelets are not new. It’s how we interpret them. With that, I think there will always be some overlap. I agree that it is so important not to jump the gun when seeing something out there that feels like “ours.”

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  4. Beth Dorsey says

    October 5, 2012 at 7:40 am

    Hi! I stumbled on your blog through facebook and I’m so glad I did!! My Etsy shop is in desperate need of a revamp, and I know your posts will be helpful! So thank you for sharing! :)

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:45 am

      @Beth Dorsey, Welcome! xoxo

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  5. Gina_AcuteDesigns says

    October 5, 2012 at 8:08 am

    This is such great advice. I love the “take a deep breath” point. Most things seem less horrible after you take a deep breath and take a day off.

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  6. Quinn Ryan Smith says

    October 5, 2012 at 9:28 am

    I needed this post today. It’s something that I’m dealing with now, have dealt with before, and will probably continue to deal with. I try really hard to examine myself and make sure that when I’m “inspired” by someone else’s work, that it is merely that, an inspiration from which I build something that is uniquely my own. But I suppose others may have difficulty having the creativity to make things their own. It just bugs me and I don’t know which is worse: to blatantly copy someone or to do it without even being aware that you are doing so? Thanks for the great post!

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:46 am

      @Quinn Ryan Smith, Hmm. I would say to blatantly copy is worse than making the mistake of copying unintentionally. xoxo

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  7. gloria cook says

    October 5, 2012 at 9:30 am

    I understand completely. I’ve been at my craft for over a dozen years. I don’t pinerest, google, read books on the subject…..i just create! It’s hard when a customer shows me a photo and says “i want that”. I do feel like a copycat. I think uniqueness is not valued high enough. It’s hard sometimes staying outside the box and still appeal to the masses. My only advice is, keep on doing what you love and know to be true. You and your Heavenly Father know the source and that just has to be good enough <3

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    • Angie @ gathered and sown says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:22 am

      @gloria cook, I am dealing with this right now,too! I’m trying to find the right words to let people know that I can not, and will not copy someone elses work….it’s hard to turn down business, but I have to remain true to my brand, and my conscience ;)

      Thanks!

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      • Gussy Sews says

        October 5, 2012 at 10:48 am

        @Angie @ gathered and sown, I think you can be totally honest with a customer/client and say, “What you’re doing is asking me to copy another artists design and that isn’t something I can do. If you’d like to work with me by using my unique ideas I’d love to create something just for you. Thank you for understanding + preserving the concept of original artwork.”

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  8. Sonia Barton says

    October 5, 2012 at 9:37 am

    I stopped putting out patterns because the first two were copied. I’m just now getting back to pattern drafting, like you say you never really know if it was copied or not. I heard a quote somewhere I wish I could find it – said something like – you will not have a unique idea, so infuse your unique self into your ideas….I’m totally loving your Business series.

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:49 am

      @Sonia Barton, what a great quote! so true!

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  9. KathyH says

    October 5, 2012 at 10:23 am

    That is a most excellent article. I appreciate it.

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  10. Shanna says

    October 5, 2012 at 10:27 am

    I relate to every word of this post…and it is so hard to let it go. Thank you for the encouraging words!! It’s especially hard when you know the person who keeps ripping you off….ugh!! Thanks for the great reminders to just let it go…let it go…let it go.

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  11. Summer Crosbie says

    October 5, 2012 at 10:30 am

    I don’t have an Etsy shop but I’m wondering how people deal with other people who make tutorials of what they’re selling. I see so many tutorials on Pinterest but I know I’ve seen people have these things in their shop. Just curious? (I hope that made sense) :)

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:50 am

      @Summer Crosbie, Most tutorials have reproduction guidelines, saying whether it’s OK to reproduce for commercial and/or personal use. It’s important these guidelines are followed, too. A tutorial/pattern is just as unique as a finished, tangible product.

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  12. Jaime says

    October 5, 2012 at 10:37 am

    This is a great series! I’ve been on both ends of this as well. Ironically, the person who has copied me the most once turned around and called me a copycat. It’s hurtful when someone not just takes your ideas, but your wording and mimics your style. It used to really get under my skin…it’s a sensitive issue, let’s face it….especially when you work so hard at what you do, but I agree with the “take a deep breath” and letting it go. Everything I make has a story behind it…a place where the inspiration struck. I create from my heart and will continue to do so. Ah, and your ‘homework” part, constantly reinventing is so great and so true. Being inspired by life events, creating from the heart and being passionate about what one does as a designer/indie biz owner is what I keep my focus on moving forward. :)

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 10:52 am

      @Jaime, It’s definitely super hard to take a deep breath, but it’s the right thing to do. It doesn’t take away the hurt, I’m not saying that at all :) But, it’s the Christian thing to do. Be kind to our neighbors. Keep on creating with the gifts we’ve been given. I’m not perfect at this, but I know this is how I should be acting…

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      • Jaime says

        October 5, 2012 at 11:03 am

        @Gussy Sews, Yes. Completely agree! :) Thank you for sharing your heart.

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  13. Katy (lil' alice) says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:02 am

    I’ve had friends request me to make something from a 31 catalog. I just tell them nope! I’m not a short order sewer. Buy it from the company. I have my line of items that I’m focusing on. It’s not worth my time to make something new from a pattern I have to make & only do it one time. I make things that I enjoy making.

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  14. denielle says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:03 am

    Not only do you have a really great business and brand, but you are a gifted teacher with great (and Godly) advice :) Thanks for sharing!

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  15. Katy (lil' alice) says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:04 am

    I am loving this series. You are doing a great job and bringing up great topics! I appreciate this one!

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  16. Amy T. says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:08 am

    Love this post! Particularly the last paragraph. In an online world that is so saturated with bloggers, designers, and creative women, it can be hard to find your own voice and come across as original. When I have challenged myself to sit on a design for a few days, I almost ALWAYS come up with a way to improve it and make more “my own.” And I’m never sorry that I spent that extra time with it. No one can copy originality like that consistently. I think copy-catters will always find their own demise eventually; I can usually sniff them out once I spend some time on their blog or shop, and chances are, others can too.

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 11:12 am

      @Amy T., Yep, complete agree. If it happens once a year, nothing to be concerned about. It’s GOING to happen! I think more people need to recognize that. However, when a shop is consistently filled with items found in other shops… that’s just stinky! xo

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  17. Emily says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:17 am

    This is great food for thought. I often question myself over whether I’m being original or not, with Pinterest and all the crafty blogs I follow, I wonder where the line falls between “inspired by” and “copied from,” if that makes sense. I once read a quote that said something like, we get so attached to our original ideas, without realizing that God is the true author of creativity and every idea really comes from Him and belongs to Him. That kind of takes the pressure off when someone copies you, because the idea wasn’t truly yours to begin with. Whoever said that said it much better than I can paraphrase it, but that was the jist.

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 11:50 am

      @Emily, OH I love that saying! So beautiful…!!!! And true. Thank you for sharing Emily! xo

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  18. Jen says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:26 am

    VERY classy advice!! I LOVE it, I wish others who like to sick their followers on people would take this advice.. hahaha

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    • Gussy Sews says

      October 5, 2012 at 11:51 am

      @Jen, It’s just icky. It makes me cringe to see such negativity, whether it’s in reply to a hurt sent their way or being negative to others first…

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  19. Amy Lynne says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:49 am

    I need to remember that line! I am not a short order sewer! Genius!

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  20. Valeri says

    October 5, 2012 at 12:04 pm

    Maggie is right…take the high road and don’t say a word. I was very successful on Etsy in 2007 and was actually able to leave my day job. Then my copy cats started popping up (one even copied my profile). I lost so much sleep at night. So much that I sold my business and went back to my day job. Even more devastating I found out most of my copy cats were people in my life who saw how successful my product was and used my techniques to create their own Etsy shops. You must take the higher road. Don’t give up. Copy cats won’t last long. They’re only in it for the money. They have no heart and they will fade. Be strong and always take the higher road as Maggie says. Don’t post mean comments. It makes you look foolish and unsure of your product. Great post.

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  21. Amanda- Vintagedutchgirl says

    October 5, 2012 at 1:06 pm

    I have a pretty successful Etsy shop selling hand made infinity scarves. No, the sewing isn’t rocket science, it’s the inspiration of seeing gorgeous fabrics and choosing which one or combinations of fabrics that would look best as a fashion scarf.
    Copycats? Absolutely. It tore me up more than a few times to see a carbon copy of some of my most popular scarf patterns in other shops. I was so frustrated. My best advice? DO NOT ACTIVELY SEARCH FOR COPYCATS! That includes searching for and “stalking” similar artisans and their shops. If I happen to randomly run across a copycat product I *try* to ignore it, unless it is blatant continued outright copying I’m going to keep my mouth shut! I try to just keep enjoying my craft and keep creating beautiful products that my sweet customers love! I’m running my shop to the best of my ability and am in love with the creative process of designing, always adding that personal touch – that’s something that can’t be copied :)

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  22. Erin @ Isaboo Designs says

    October 5, 2012 at 1:34 pm

    Back when I started making my banners I didn’t even look to see if others made a similar item, it was something I made for my own home and it just sort of grew from there. I thought it was so cute and original and then I realized I wasn’t the only one with the brilliant idea! It can be really hard to be truly original and it is easy to jump to conclusions. The best you can do is do what you do to the best of your ability. This is good advice because all that energy spent getting ticked off about a copycat only takes away from your creative energy.

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  23. michelle says

    October 5, 2012 at 1:40 pm

    Thank you for this. I actually shut my photography business down for a year and a half because not only did I find my work published without my permission, others seemed to be copying what I was doing – I also started doubting my own abilities. I spent a lot of time healing some other parts of my life that were broken and began an activity, “why I do what I do”. I know that the type of photography I do is not for everyone, and it is not an easy sell either – but it is part of the journey to the destiny waiting for me, and now I’m ready to go full force. With that passion, I now have energy and time to do fun craft and art products to sell along with my photography!

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  24. Franchesca says

    October 5, 2012 at 1:46 pm

    Oh Gus, I totally respect you even more after reading this. It is tough dealing with copycats because my first instinct is “Hey!!! You totally stole my idea (and I’ve worked my TAIL off)!” LOL but like you pointed out it’s really hard to know for sure. It’s such a creative and big world, and know one will ever really know. Taking the higher ground has ALWAYS paid off. Not the easiest by far, but definitely more rewarding in the end. Thanks for the tips, I LOVE the one about taking a creative day. :)

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  25. Franchesca says

    October 5, 2012 at 1:48 pm

    love your point that copycats are doing it for just the money. great advice and so true- they don’t last long.

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  26. Kate @ Songs Kate Sang says

    October 5, 2012 at 9:47 pm

    Great advice. I am having a hard time with a situation right now. Within 24 hours posting prices, their prices change… promotionals, dates, ideas… it hurts, but I know God has a plan.

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  27. Melissa @ A Time for Everything says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:21 pm

    Oh, Maggie. If I didn’t know better, I’d think the Holy Spirit gave you His job for a few minutes in my life today. ;)

    I was copied several months ago by a former customer who even copied and pasted parts of my product description. (She has since changed the wording after being contacted by me, though she has never replied to my message.) I felt so violated. One thing that’s so hard about someone intentionally doing this in the handmade world is that they don’t seem to realize (or care) that the person being copied is a flesh & blood person like them–not some faceless corporation. It hurts.

    Confession: A few weeks ago I mentioned the situation on my business FB page after she crossed another line. I didn’t get nasty or name names in any way, but I did vent my discouragement . I just went and deleted it after reading your post, because I felt convicted. I think this may end up being one of those “thorns in my flesh” where I have to keep running to God and trusting that His grace is sufficient for me. He’s blessing my business, and I’m so grateful. Every day I need to choose to let go and not let it rob my joy.

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  28. Panda Anderson says

    October 5, 2012 at 11:25 pm

    Interesting topic choice.

    Honestly this makes me think of the awesome book ruby the copycat.

    If you’re not familiar it’s a picture book about a little girl who copies another little girl because she likes her so much.

    I was always taught copying is the biggest form of flattery, a rather optimistic approach that may not necessarily suit all, but it has indeed worked for me. I agree a direct copy of a site or a brand or a word for word incident is not very nice. Someone biting everything you exactly do sucks and people who do that seriously don’t deserve dessert ever again in their lives as punishment. But people who get fueled by looking at other people’s work or trying their own interpretation of something is not bad to me. I have tried my hands making something I have seen someone else make, and vice versa. Isn’t that what Pinterest is all about?
    If anything I think as independent creators we should be more concerned with big business biting our designs… I’m tired of urban outfitters and other crappy places like that trolling handmade sites to steal ideas and then resell for exorbant prices.
    If a lady in another state or town sees my stuff and gets inspired and makes her version of it, m going to say good job to her for taking commerce into her own hands and maybe possibly keeping at customer from buying a lame item at a commercial store that was most likely outsourced and poorly made. But that’s just me. I don’t have time for negativity.

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  29. Dee says

    October 12, 2012 at 8:56 am

    My copycat is really ticking me off..I’m confused as to what the problem is – she has copied my stitch markers, they aren’t as nice as mine, she sells them for more than I do and has people jumping all over to order them…I just don’t get it….Maybe I should make mine sloppy and charge more????

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  30. Shawna Miller says

    October 14, 2012 at 11:53 am

    Several years ago I had an issue with a copy cat. When one of my customers pointed it out via a social media site, the person started leaving mean comments and had her boyfriend hack some of my sites (including my blog). I couldn’t deal with their negativity and invasion of my privacy and deleted everything. It took me a long time to get back into blogging and posting pictures of my projects. I’m at the stage of considering opening my shop again, and I am working on getting over the fear of getting hacked. I miss my old shop name because it was one my husband came up with for me, and it is dear to me…I still have lots of planning and considering to do. I can’t wait to continue reading your 31 days posts, and get inspired to jump out there again! Thanks for all your advice and wisdom! :)

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  31. Michelle says

    November 15, 2012 at 3:54 pm

    thank you for the re-cap of 31 Days, Gussy. I just read this one for the first time, and I have to say that this one is my favorite. I have not yet started a business, (but still dreaming and planning) and I had always wondered about this one.
    Your advice is wise and Christ-honoring.

    One question, though. What if someone does copy your work, claims it as their own and gets their work/design copy-written?

    Which leads me to the next question: “Should every design created be copy-written before ever going public?”

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  32. April says

    January 6, 2013 at 11:09 am

    Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom! I was having a total panic attack earlier about launching my line then remembered your series. Been going through and reading each post. Only on day 5 and I am feeling so much better and very empowered that not only can I do this, but I can keep my personal life under control as well. Thanks again for this amazing series!

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  33. Ada says

    April 23, 2013 at 10:51 am

    Thanks so much for this post. I was just called a copycat last night and it was/is so hurtful! You’re so right – creative coincidence does happen and it’s not much fun for either party. If only we could all find the grace to handle copycat situations calmly rather than resorting to snark and insult. *sigh*

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  34. Kelly says

    July 13, 2015 at 8:58 pm

    This is funny because I have a friend who doesn’t copy my work, but copies the things I do in my life. I have an idea and I pursue it and a month later she’s up to the same thing. Whether it’s traveling to a certain place, taking on a creative endeavor, or even my thoughts on marriage and having kids! I have felt like I was unwillingly partaking in a competition with her from the moment I met her until about a month ago when she did something else again and all I heard in my head was, “Just stay focused on your own work. Let her do her thing and you do yours.” Oddly enough I have finally reached a place where I feel like I AM different and she can’t actually copy me whether she wants to or not. It’s my choice whether I let it get to me and that’s just not happening. :) Good post!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      July 14, 2015 at 1:39 pm

      What an interesting comparison you’ve realized — and right on that you’ve forged on! As hard as it may be, remember she’s trying to compliment you in pursuing your interests, too. XO

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We’re driving home in the dark of the winter nig We’re driving home in the dark of the winter night after a beautiful, hard & intentional couple of days working on a project ✨I’m committed to work on this this year; 2021 is already great. 🤩🤐😘
Ohhhhh, this year. Ohhhh, specifically these last Ohhhhh, this year. Ohhhh, specifically these last 3 months. I’ve had more anxiety than ever, and it’s seriously putting me on my knees in prayer —almost daily. My mind and chest aren’t unfamiliar of the attacks, but the grip it’s had on me since September has been so strong. The attacks are painful. But... Worship music has been one of my main healers. 🎶I know God is close to the broken-hearted (Psalm 34:18), and singing this truth really soothes me. Social media has been a big trigger for anxiety for me. I don’t want to “miss out on my life”, which is why I’ve hugely stepped back in posting and scrolling. 

One song in particular comes to mind:

“We step into Freedom. 
We step into all you have for us.” -Bethel Music & Jenn Johnson

There IS freedom from the anxiety attacks. For me: music, scripture, eating healthy, vitamins, rest, crying, prayer, honesty — these things help tremendously. Also getting up and MOVING when my anxiety sits on me like a boulder, that helps too. 🖤

Another soothing truth is from the end of Psalm 34:19 — “many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the lord delivers him of them all.”

Seriously. Thank you lord. Thank you for music and for rest and for the words in your book. I need them. I need You. I need Your freedom. I trust you’ll deliver me.
Nearing the end of my “20 letters in 20 weeks” Nearing the end of my “20 letters in 20 weeks” challenge. Many stayed in Michigan, but mail was also sent to Colorado, Texas, California, Indiana, and Arizona. I loved this personal exercise! I have just one question: who will be my pen-pal for 2021? ✏️💌
We piled in the car this morning for a nature walk We piled in the car this morning for a nature walk. When I finally walked out and sat down, they shouted, “THE QUEEN! EVERYBODY CHEER FOR THE QUEEN!” (yes, they really call me that...☺️💓☺️)

I brought our basket of mittens and gloves and hats. The older two brought RC cars. Bauer the dog came along; we had a wonderful time on our walk.

The afternoon was harder, but overall the day was sandwiched between two really sweet time slots.

Bedtime tonight was wonderful. We read two chapters from our read aloud and Max lost another baby tooth.

This job I have, it really wears me down AND fills me up. It’s a constant take away AND fill up. Even when the moments feel so fitful, I know the story is rich. 

🕯🌙 Hello, sweet slumber. You’re carrying my babies away to a peaceful land. Goodnight, my children. Goodnight.

#motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodissanctifying #naturewalk #michigan
There’s a woman on Instagram I check on every co There’s a woman on Instagram I check on every couple of weeks because she is so sparkly & cheerful. She shares little pep talks, she wears fuchsia lipstick. She says, “like so, like that” when she’s explaining something. She’s a hoot. I love the joy that bursts from her eyes when she talks. In her own unique ways, her perspectives pull back the fog I often find myself in. I’m a weary mama, and her energy and gentleness feels nurturing, though I haven’t met her... I would love to meet her. 👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏼I’m inspired by the snippets of life she shares online. Thank you, Tabitha for sharing your light. 🕯💓💄🌿@iamtabithabrown
What has kept you and your home busy as of late? F What has kept you and your home busy as of late? For us, it’s this…

The sound of Julia Robert’s calming voice is playing in the background of our playroom. Yesterday we finished another read aloud, Charlotte’s Web, so today my children are watching the movie. Knowing in-detail the lessons they are learning, along with reading books together, definitely adds to the joy of motherhood; the joy of teaching my children and being with them for so many hours each day. We experience so much together. Even when things feel chaotic at home, when I can’t call something by the correct name they still long to be near me and work alongside me. Tired has been a dear companion to me for the last seven years, but my children are gentle with their responses.

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It’s the season of perpetual hope. 🎄✨📖Of It’s the season of perpetual hope. 🎄✨📖Of books that shape our minds, of anticipation, of creative projects that mar our kiddos clothing (but morph our memories into beauty). Oh right! There are cookies cooling on the counter — gotta go! ✌🏻
Keeping my hands busy (making wooden bead garland Keeping my hands busy (making wooden bead garland for our tree; link posted to Stories) and my mind inspired (watching HGTV). I really enjoy the quiet of the evening after a full, rich day. God is so kind to give this to me today. What have you received today? 🎄💫📿
This guy is my steady; my Zack. This is a latergra This guy is my steady; my Zack. This is a latergram from October, from one of our many fall adventures with the kids. We had so many fun day trips, I don’t even remember where this was taken 👏🏻⭐️. I’m gonna guess Cranbrook Gardens.
This morning I sat on the front porch and read my This morning I sat on the front porch and read my book & drank coffee. The birds were with me, nearly a hundred of them. Fluttering from rooftop to treetop to hiding inside the bushes. So beautiful and calm. Mother culture... the path to joy in motherhood & homemaking.
Well kiddos, we had a great summer together! 🥳👏🏻🛴⛱🍦🤸🏼‍♀️🎨🎹🏊🏻‍♂️🧺🎠📚📺🍿🌿🌷☀️🚲

Thanks for coming along with me to the pool, nature trails, the park, hosting friends in our backyard, reading adventures, popcorn & movie night, art, planting flowers, planting a garden, bike rides, neighborhood walks, lake swimming, and supplying the ice cream truck w/ roughly $84 this summer. 

I loved our time together! 🥰🧒🏼👩🏻👧🏼🧒🏻

And the great news is this: we have autumn to enjoy together, too! 👏🏻🌾🍃🍂 so thankful.
Even if you don’t have students learning at home Even if you don’t have students learning at home, these ten “field trip” ideas will give your day a boost. 

When your mind feels foggy, step outside. When your home feels too small or too big, step outside. When the bickering is loud or your internal criticism is high, step outside. 

Give yourself (and your family) the joy of an adventure away from the home. 

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It’s come to my realization there’s plenty of It’s come to my realization there’s plenty of time these days to craft a letter when I wash dishes, take my kids on a walk, or take care of our garden. All that silence, it makes my internal monologue even louder 🤣. 

Many times we are out & about in the neighborhood and I think, “oh the flowers surrounding your porch are lovely!” Or, “wow” (to the elderly man) “you have such a great smile, thanks for sharing it with us!” Wouldn’t it be great to jot that down in a card and send it through the mail as well?

We are always in need of community & kind words! 🌷💬

I remember many years ago, when nearly pregnant with another baby and our personal finances were THE PITS, my best friend came over with $500 cash. Just to bless us. She also included a personal note. Of course, I’ve always known how special personal notes are, but this card really meant so much.

And so I’ve decided as the year-end nears: wouldn’t it be nice to send a letter a week for the final 20 weeks we have left in 2020. Me thinks so 🙂. 

Community & kind words: I’m coming for you!

PS. wanna join me in sending 20 cards by Dec. 31?
🖤working on our school room, mid-process update 🖤working on our school room, mid-process update! this wall is inspired by @mygrandparentschair 👏🏻 

I saw her feature in a recent issue of “Better Homes & Gardens” and I was all 🤩🤩over her foyer. I’m using 1/2” black masking tape (mistake-making friendly) instead of paint, also renter friendly. 

Working on this project has been so good for my mental health. Doing > worrying.
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