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How to style your wavy (or curly) hair.

March 21, 2014 · 58 Comments
Filed Under: hair + beauty

how to style wavy hair

Wanna know a secret? I don’t wash my hair every day. Wanna know another secret? Earlier this week I trimmed my hair in the bathroom during naptime. (Don’t tell my hair dresser. Well wait, it’s been a really long time since I’ve seen her, so…)

These two secrets have helped me style my wavy hair, but I have one more big secret that’s practically helped me guarantee pretty, wavy hair every day (whether or not my hair is washed daily). For years I’ve heard how great sulfate-free shampoo is, especially if you have wavy or curly hair, but it’s one of those things where you have to try it to believe it. I’ve never been able to skip a shampoo when I wash with regular shampoo, but with sulfate-free shampoo I can, and I dare say my hair often times looks better on day two? Dare :)

Shampoo with sulfates makes the soap lather up all bubbly-deliciously. And bubbles equals clean, right?! But these bubbles also cause frizziness in curly hair and can damage colored hair.

One of my LA friends shared her curly hair secrets with me, and they’re so good I have to re-share, along with a few of my styling secrets :)

How to style wavy (or curly) hair //

1. Use a sulfate-free shampoo (Trader Joe’s sells shampoo & conditioner for $4/each) and finish with it’s sister conditioner. Wait a few minutes for the conditioner to soak in, then comb or pick through with a wide-tooth comb before rinsing.

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2. If necessary, quickly comb hair post-shower to detangle hair and redefine curls.

3. Pump Paul Mitchell’s Round Trip (below, left) 3-4 times, defining your curls as you distribute the product evenly. If your hair is shorter, use less; longer, use more.

4. If your hair is a little dry, apply a small amount of moroccan hair oil (below, center) when damp and distribute evenly, making sure you apply this to your ends.

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5. Scrunch a teeny tiny bit. Use your fingers to lift your hair near your scalp and crown to create volume. Let your hair air dry, or once nearly dry use a diffuser and finish with a blow dryer.

6. Help your waves (curls) to set by finishing with hairspray (above, right). This is my very favorite hairspray, I love the hold it provides and it smells sooooo good :)

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Something I mentioned above that using sulfate-free shampoo has helped me with is skip shampooing my hair daily. Before using SF I would wake up in the morning and my hair would be pretty flat with too many straight pieces to even let me consider skipping a ‘poo. But now I wake up and I have volume!, curls!, even ringlets! some mornings.

To skip a shampoo, here’s what you do // grab a spray bottle of water and mist your hair. It’s OK to be generous; wetting your hair won’t make the curl fall out. Once your hair is evenly misted scrunch and redefine your curls. Again, use your fingers to lift your hair near your scalp and crown to create volume. You can either air dry or use a diffuser. Some times I add another pump of Round Trip, but I almost always apply a little more hairspray.

Product shopping list:
–Tea Tree Tingle Shampoo & Conditioner by Trader Joe’s
–Round Trip by Paul Mitchell
–Moroccan Oil by Garnier-Fructis
–Body Envy Hairspray by Herbal Essences

 

Super easy, right? If you’re a wavy- or curly-haired gal, what are some of your secrets? What’s your styling routine?

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  1. Beth Ann Platt says

    March 21, 2014 at 5:21 am

    Love it!!! Great tips!! Thank you so much!!! I have never tried sulfate free shampoo so I am so going to! I have wavy beachy hair that if is not maintained will look like a lions mane. I completely brush it out in the shower. Shampoo and condition. I rinse the conditioner out but leave a teeny tiny bit on the ends. I scrunch my hair under the water and while it is soaking wet I scrunch it again with “Got 2 Be Kinky” mousse. It is the only curl product that gives me great definition and volume without being too heavy. Then instead of wrapping it in a towel, I wrap it in a tshirt (a trick from a hairstylist friend who says it keeps away the friz). I then use my diffuser and scrunch as I go. Perfect beachy hair!!! If there is ever a wacky piece I use my wand to fix it!!

    Xoxo Beth Ann :] @elleizahbeth

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:30 pm

      @Beth Ann Platt, YES! And I totally believe you have perfect beachy hair :) One little tip with the SF shampoo, it won’t lather like you’re used to, which feels SO WEIRD at first… but use your normal amount and really focus on scrubbing your scalp. Let the suds wash down the length of your hair and that’s enough to clean that section. I don’t always skip a shampoo, but maybe once a week I wash it twice. I’m not sure if that’s right or wrong, but that’s what I do. SO glad you commented :)

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  2. Kacia says

    March 21, 2014 at 5:39 am

    goodness. your waves are so enviable. seriously – they are perfect!

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  3. Lacey says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:14 am

    I am a hair stylist here in Oklahoma! With the weather here and my hair being curly it’s a nightmare to deal with! I have had really good results using the Redken Curvaceous line on my hair (shampoo, conditioner, full swirl cream/serum, and wind up spray) I really like the foxy curls cream by Bed Head as well (it smells like skittles!!) I also sometimes use a leave in conditioner if I feel my curls are extra dry. I only shampoo about every third day (that’s where the wind up spray comes in. Just spray a little on the hair and rescrunch!). I always have to diffuse my hair or I have awkward spots that do their own thing!! The trick is (with mine anyway) not to rough up your cuticle! Don’t keep scrunching it after it’s dry, don’t “mess” with it either. Just leave it alone :)

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:31 pm

      @Lacey, I have to stay far, far away from Bed Head products — they smell waayyyy too good ♥

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  4. Dana at Happy Little Lovelies says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:32 am

    I’m so glad you posted this! I have really wavy hair but after years of flat ironing, it’s just not as pretty as it used to be. I even tried the “curly girl” method and it kinda turned me off to the sulfate free stuff (my hair ended up feeling really heavy and dull) but your method seems to be in the middle so I think I’m going to try it. Just curious… how big of a difference do you think finishing with a diffuser makes? Does it add a lot of volume? My hair is thick so the roots feel weighed down when I add product.

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    • Brooke says

      March 21, 2014 at 4:19 pm

      @Dana at Happy Little Lovelies,
      Try using the diffuser while your head is upside down. It gives me great volume and my hair is super thick. Also, When I hold my diffuser, I don’t “cup” my hair into it, I just hold it above my hair and keep the air flow going the same direction as my hair. This keeps it from getting frizzy!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:33 pm

      @Dana at Happy Little Lovelies, Using a diffuser definitely helps me with volume. I let it air dry maybe 80% and then finish with the diffuser, but all the while I lift my hair at my roots as it air dries to help create natural lift. Also, try the moroccan oil. It’s really helped my dry/dull hair :)

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  5. Sarah M says

    March 21, 2014 at 7:28 am

    Awesome tip about the TJ’s shampoo + conditioner set. I have never bought their products but am always on the scout for affordable** SF sets for curly hair. Yay! Thanks so much. Oh gosh, that Moroccan oil is worth it’s weight in GOLD!
    Sarah M

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:34 pm

      @Sarah M, I didn’t even realize it was SF until I was reading the back of the bottle inside the shower. Snort. And yes, that oil so great! :)

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  6. Katy says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:27 am

    your hair is getting so long! my hair is curly too but since it’s so short it doesn’t curl as well. ugh! it just looks like afro city & too many hair products!

    love your tips!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      @Katy, IT IS GETTING SO LONG! When I sit down on the couch it ends up under my back, which is just crazy. It’s taken me maybe 8 months to get it this long. I made it through the tough stage where it’s near your shoulders but not quite long enough. And about your comment of too many hair products, try out the ones I listed and see if you like it? And def try the SF shampoo. Using too many products can cause a lot of buildup and make your curly hair uncurly. ♥

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  7. Aimee says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:45 am

    How do you dry your hair when you get out of the shower?!? Thanks for all the tips!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      @Aimee, I let it air dry about 80% and then I finish with a diffuser :)

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  8. Nay says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:00 am

    I had always heard about sulfate-free stuff and worried because I didn’t know how it would work with my oily/combination hair. I’m excited to get all these products and start the #maggiecurl routine!
    Thanks from one curly girl to another:)

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:37 pm

      @Nay, It’s SO good for curly hair. Honestly, it’s made my hair even more curly, and I noticed it after 1-2 shampoos (no lie).

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  9. Jenna @ A Savory Feast says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:25 am

    These are great tips! I always use sulfate-free shampoo on my curly hair but I didn’t know they sell it at Trader Joes! I am going to have to get some. Your hair looks fabulous!

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  10. caroline says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:46 am

    love these tips! i use the loreal sulfate free shampoo but i’ll have to try the other products. do you still use the Not Your Mother’s Beach Baby spray? or does living in LA give you natural beachy waves now ;)

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:38 pm

      @caroline, LOL ;D thanks for the giggle. No I stopped using that beach babe spray, it was seriously drying my hair out with all the sea salt in it. I have two full bottles of it, can I please give them to you? ♥

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      • caroline says

        March 24, 2014 at 7:44 am

        @Maggie Whitley, I agree with you. it does dry out my hair especially in the winter months here in Chicagoland when the air is so dry already. It does work great in the summer when the air is so humid around here. Want to know my favorite way to dry my hair? Wash, add styling product, then hop in my Jeep with the doors and top off and drive around. :) This only works in the summer, of course. It’s wild and crazy and full of volume but I love it! Now, I just need to figure out the solution for winter…

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  11. Caroline C. says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:40 pm

    I use that TJ’s stuff, too! I spent years and way too much money trying every “all natural” shampoo and conditioner I could find and all of them dried my hair out big-time. Once I tried Tea Tree Tingle, I’ve never gone back. It’s the BEST! I can usually go three days between washes and typically, Day #2 Hair is the cutest.

    I use a volumizing mousse in my hair (I use John Frieda) and a few spritzes of the Not Your Mother’s Beach Baby spray to give some texture and keep my curls from falling flat. My curly hair isn’t super-thick, so I’m always trying to find tricks to help give me volume. I’ll have to check out that hairspray and the Paul Mitchell stuff, too.

    Also, I second the “dry your hair in a t-shirt” and diffuser tricks in earlier comments, too. They really do work to reduce frizz and keep curls intact.

    P.S. Hope you and Zack are doing well! No surprises that you guys created the cutest little dude ever. :)

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:40 pm

      @Caroline C., Ohhhhh, what a fun surprise to see your beautiful photo here!

      Umm, you have gorgeous hair. So glad to know we use the same shampoo :) :)

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  12. Judalee says

    March 21, 2014 at 2:04 pm

    So excited to have this information. The closest TJ’s is 2 hours away! Road trip! I really only wash my hair every three days, if I blow dry the first day it is a frizzy mess but day tie and three are great. If I let it go natural, the first day isn’t as frizzy if I don’t touch it after the curly waves form, but it is still frizzed. Can’t wait to try your suggestions. Thanks So Much!!!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:41 pm

      @Judalee, Yes! Definitely try the shampoo (you can also order it on Amazon, but it’s a little more $$ I found). And give the Paul Mitchell product a try, it’s a slimy serum so it’s lightweight but it does wonders for holding curl and fighting frizz. XO

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  13. Cassie @ Live.Laugh.L0ve. says

    March 21, 2014 at 4:13 pm

    Your wavy hair is gorgeous! I love rocking wavy hair and I am a huge fan of Herbal Essences products, but I will definitely be checking out the other products! Thanks for sharing Maggie!

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  14. Franchesca says

    March 21, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    Oh this was so good! I agree SF is the way to go, esp for curly heads. I went “no poo” over a year ago and truly don’t miss the traditional shampoo/ conditioners. When I straighten my hair (and use extra oil to prevent split ends) I do use SF products to get the extra oil out completely but otherwise it’s just Baking soda/water and apple cider vinegar/water. I also use a Curl+Style Milk (http://www.target.com/p/sheamoisture-coconut-hibiscus-curl-style-milk-8-fl-oz/-/A-12239779). It smells amazing and works like a charm. My hair tends to be on the dry side, so I will def look into Moroccan oil, thanks for sharing your tips!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:42 pm

      @Franchesca, Ohhhh, I’m always interested in products that smell good. How do you use the Curl+Style Milk? Tell me your secrets :)

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  15. Christina says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:07 pm

    Thank you for these tips esp the Trader Joe’s shampoo/conditioner…. Will have to check that out! (Hope it’s friendly to color treated hair…)

    Now PLEASE give us a tutorial on how to get lashes like yours! Yeow ;)

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 21, 2014 at 9:43 pm

      @Christina, It is color-treated friendly. I highlight my hair and it’s a really mild shampoo. It’s great :)

      OK, my lashes secret is using this kind of mascara: http://www.maybelline.com/Products/Eye-Makeup/Mascara/volum-express-the-colossal-washable-mascara.aspx

      XOXO

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  16. Kelly says

    March 22, 2014 at 2:50 pm

    what blowdryer/diffuser do you use?

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      March 22, 2014 at 6:56 pm

      @Kelly, a cheapo one from Target, I think it was $25? :)

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  17. Amy @ Wildflower Ramblings says

    March 24, 2014 at 4:49 am

    Thanks for the tips! I have waves since having my second baby — I use Bed Head Foxy Curls after shampooing (once a week) and simple wet it and reapply a little more foxy curls if needed. But I need all the advice I can get — my husband has spiral curls and it appears my daughter will too so I want to help her when she’s older :)

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  18. Sarah K says

    March 24, 2014 at 7:07 am

    Well, I’ve been following the previous styling routine a la Maggie – SF shampoo, NYM Sea Salt spray, John Frieda Dream Curls Spray, same hairspray. Have been not loving it as much as I used to and I’m so glad I read the comments and found out you thought the NYM spray was drying your hair out b/c that is EXACTLY the issue I’ve noticed! I’m debating about trying to commit to growing my curly hair out long like yours so I might have to give your new regime a try. Thanks Maggie!

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  19. Kara Rosenberry says

    March 24, 2014 at 8:01 am

    I have very thick naturally curly hair and usually use devacurl shampoo and conditioner and use garnier fructise curl cream and not your mamas hair products curl cream as well. I have also used their beach waves product with mixed reviews. This would be on day 3 of no washing heme I am working from home and it needs something.

    I found a great easy less time solution that has saved me and given me hours of sleep time verses doing hair in the morning time. I found the hot buns hair buns work great overnight!!! (As seen on TV or at target or walmart) In the evening, I wash my hair or just condition it, depending, put one of the above curl creams in it. Go chill in the sofa for a few laying down to create some curls (this is optional) and then put my wet hair in a pony tail long bangs included and roll it up in the hot buns product in a high bun and sleep. The next morning I take my hair down dry it for like 5 minutes and I have perfect curls. Life changing!!!!

    I did get some of the trader joes shampoo because paying $8 for shampoo and conditioner instead of a $20 plus is alright with me.

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  20. Renee CandyStickLane says

    March 24, 2014 at 12:56 pm

    great tips~ Im mixed so I have a really thick coarse textured curl – and I never put a towel on my hair – I wrap it in a tshirt when I get out of the shower!

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  21. Tanya says

    March 25, 2014 at 4:04 am

    Since about 2002, I’ve used a product called “Frizz Busters” serum by Fantasia – I use it after I wash my hair (daily, I know! GASP!) in place of gel or other product. My hair comes out soft, curly, hydrated, and bouncy. I live in the humid East Coast – I highly recommend this product too. I don’t even own a comb or brush, my fingers style my hair. I blow dry my hair upside down. I really find that everyone with curly hair has a different routine that works for them. it was great to read everyone’s ideas!

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  22. Kate says

    March 26, 2014 at 7:27 am

    great tips, I love them; and your curls are just perfect.
    I had really good results using the CHI line of products.

    Love Kate :*

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  23. Katie says

    April 24, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    Thank you! I gave up straightening my hair 2 weeks ago. I’ve tried a couple products but not really happy with them. Just got my Paul Mitchell Round Trip off of Amazon and love it. My hair has nice waves without being crunchy! Crossing my fingers that it will look good tomorrow too.

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  24. Tricia says

    May 13, 2014 at 10:41 am

    I followed this to the letter this morning & my (stubborn/obnoxious) naturally curly hair looks NICE. It’s amazing – thank you! I appreciate the tips on products, too. :)

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  25. jen says

    June 19, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    How to you redefine your curls after the shower?

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  26. Julia C says

    July 14, 2014 at 12:04 pm

    Hey! These sound like great ideas! Would this work on all hair types?

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  27. Alli says

    August 26, 2014 at 4:33 am

    Great tips!!! We are hair twins- I have the same hair😄 quick question do you always use Moroccan oil & only on the ends! Thanks in advance! Love your blog!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      August 26, 2014 at 11:00 am

      Not always, just if my hair feels dry :)

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    • Alli says

      August 27, 2014 at 4:41 am

      Thanks!!!

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  28. Emma D. says

    August 26, 2014 at 6:53 am

    This was perfect! Your hair looks gorgeous! Is there another product that you could use in place of Round Trip? I will definitely be buying the shampoo and conditioner from trader joes!

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    • Maggie Whitley says

      August 26, 2014 at 11:01 am

      Oh I’m sure!

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      • Alli says

        January 3, 2015 at 8:34 pm

        I love all these tips everyone has! My name is Allison, I’m 15 and I need a change in styling my curly hair. I am defiantly going to try the SF shampoo and stylers to put in after. I usually take my shower at night and I was wondering if this process would still work for me?

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        • Maggie Whitley says

          January 4, 2015 at 9:03 am

          Try it out! Refresh your hair in the morning with a spray bottle of water :)

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  29. Kaya Gupta says

    March 18, 2015 at 3:11 am

    Hey, i am so thankful to you for this post. i have wavy hair and seriously speaking i don’t like them at all. i wanted straight hair. but after getting through your post, i started liking my hair. i always thought that straight hair looks stylish but i was wrong wavy hair can also look gorgeous. Thanks dear

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  30. Anu Singh says

    March 19, 2015 at 11:17 pm

    your blog is really very informative and useful. My sis has curly hair and she used to get messed up with them. Hehe..i will tell her about your tips. Thanks for sharing

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  31. keri lee says

    March 24, 2015 at 2:15 am

    Oolala nice styles, really

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  32. hira khan says

    September 28, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    It’s very important to take care of curly hair properly as they prone to dry, rough and frizzy easily, as weather changes your hairs also change its texture so it’s very important to know what they need and which product apply at which time.

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We had gotten a bit lazy with our rhythms: screens We had gotten a bit lazy with our rhythms: screens in the morning (HGTV), playtime before lessons, and not enough quiet time after lunch. This made for a really, ummm, unenjoyable learning experience. 

But today! Today we reset the rhythm, and we have had a much happier home & time learning together. 👏🏻
Visit my stories for a quick message from ME — t Visit my stories for a quick message from ME — think outside the box in terms of how you view the definition of “motherhood” 💓😘 (also: look at my little friend, she’s sooooo snuggly)
It’s another cold, winter day. ❄️Today I hop It’s another cold, winter day. ❄️Today I hope to bundle up for another family nature walk, knowing the fresh air sweeps out any & all frustration, inviting inspiration inside. ✨That’s something we all need more of.
seriously LOL: I’ve found the secret to calming seriously LOL: I’ve found the secret to calming the Laundry Beast (as a family of 6). Who wants the inside scoop? ✔️🧺👏🏻
Another batch of “fun mail” is headed out tomo Another batch of “fun mail” is headed out tomorrow :) small celebrations like this are very life giving! PS. thinking of starting a zoom book club — I need more sisterhood in my life. 👏🏻📖
The house is quiet. The heat is on. The pages are The house is quiet. The heat is on. The pages are turning. The tea is calm. 🖤☕️🧺📖
Breakfast with Buzz! If only you could see his ful Breakfast with Buzz! If only you could see his full costume and laser blaster and of course the Buzz action figure he flys around 🌟💚💙💨someone has discovered a superhero crush! #joyinmotherhood #slowmornings #surprisedbymotherhood // Landon @ 2.5yo
Today on my blog I have a list of books I hope to Today on my blog I have a list of books I hope to read this year. Plus my reading goal for the year. And a few practicals ways I fit in reading as a mama of four young children & homeschooling them. Basically, all the good stuff ☺️💓📖 #maggiewhitleydotcom #readersofinstagram #read #readmorebooks
It was the perfect opportunity to rearrange the fu It was the perfect opportunity to rearrange the furniture as we took the tree down Tuesday midday. Def one of my fav things to do.🎄👋🏻 We made it through our first week back to school since mid-December! It was rough to begin but ended with high fives. ⭐️✏️This morning I zoomed with a mama friend and I’m impressed with the many topics we covered. Sisterhood is sooooo necessary! ☕️👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏼

Just a few cheery memories from my week! How about you?
Book reading! One of my best “Maggie” activiti Book reading! One of my best “Maggie” activities. I finished my last book moments before 2020 ended, which brought my started list to a close. Small joys add up to big joys ;)

What are you reading this year? Currently?

How many books are you planning to read? What’s your goal?

I’ll share what’s on my list for 2021 soon as I received some nice titles at Christmas. 📖✨🤍
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